It Works! It Works!

I'm trying to rehab my ankle back into action.
Tried swimming, which is great, as long as i don't kick the wall and re-spoil my ankle.
Tried stationary-biking, which is safe, but well, simply isn't fun.
Yesterday, i finally tried jogging and.... it works it works! it hurts much less, and feels less flimsy now.
My ankle's repaired, and i can use it again!

Yay!!!
Badminton next week!!! =)
Sports Club next Wednesday, anyone?

IT'S NOT OK!

2 murders, right here in Singapore.
Killed by their own spouses, the very ones who were supposed to care, protect, love, cherish.
Seems like the only parts of their marriage vows they remembered were the "till death do us part" bits huh?
Grrrrr... It's just not right!

Look, don't "they" see that almost everyone has got a wrong perception of marriage?
Don't "they" care that "they" are perpetrating it?
Don't we know that "they" refers to each one of us?

Stop sending the message that affairs, immorality and selfish pusuit of "happiness, prosperity and progress" are fine!

But i'll never get my voice heard!
It's drowned in the anthem of "personal choice", "subjective morality", "progress, change and a liberal society."
They say, "that's your opinion on relationship. the world has moved on. you can have your opinions, but you can't impose your views on others."
"Move with the times! We need the pink dollar!! We can't afford to be be left behind! Economy is king!"

so conveniently, affairs and "alternative lifestyles" are glamourised.
committment and faithfulness are trivialised.

You think it's fair this way, coz we both get to keep our views.

But it doesn't work that way!

Coz YOUR views are too attractive to the flesh!
You offer Coke or Herbal Tea to a Wise Sage, he might take the herbal tea.
You offer Coke or Herbal Tea to a kid?
Our kids don't stand a chance at all!
They don't see it demonstrated to them. They never get to learn it.
They never GET a choice, coz their minds were shaped before they even KNEW they have a choice!

Kids who grow up with such a world view have such a slim chance of enjoying a meaningful, monogamous marriage!
Kids who grow up with such a world view have no notion of lifetime committment!
Kids who grow up with such a world view think that everything's game in their pursuit of happiness.

It's just not right!

Can we do something about this already?
If not, such cases will just become more common.

Can we not learn to give up our "rights" to loose living, our "rights" to pursue our own convenience, our "rights" to maximise our pleasures,
for the sake of Righteousness, Love for Others, and Holiness?

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*cry*
a lone voice calling in the desert crowd.

Why Pursue Happiness?

Happiness

Sitting at the beach alone, after blading, or a jog.
Watching the sea, feeling the breeze.
Nowhere to rush to, no deadlines to meet.
No worries, no anxiety.
Speaking with Him, telling Him everything.
One perfect moment.
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Taking leave from work, one day every month.
Sitting by the pool, enjoying the sun.
Projects done, no seniors calling.
No meetings for that day.
Just a quiet day, in the sun, with a book.
One perfect moment.
*
Sitting in a cab, finally.
No need to worry, coz will definitely be on time.
Yet, not in school yet.
No one's hounding, no need to hound anyone.
My time. My own time.
One perfect moment.
*
Snuggling closer. Shifting, shifting.
Till that one perfect position, where every nook is filled.
Cheek resting on his shoulders, his left arm under my head, his right hand embracing me.
Fused together. Assured. He is mine, and i am his.
Wholly, completely, as long as we both shall live.
One perfect moment
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Happiness ain't Joy.

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Joy is when i see progress, hope, purpose behind it all.
Joy is when a wayward student decides to leave a gang, to stop fighting.
Joy is when a hurting child finds a friend in Jesus.
Joy is when i know i am doing the work set out for me by God.

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The Pursuit of Happiness

I used to think that with more time for leisure i would be happy.
I used to think that with more resources i would be happy.
I used to think that with more toys i would be happy.
I used to think that with Jesus i would be happy.
I used to think that with a purposeful life i would be happy.

So i pursued.

But it doesn't work.

Meaningless, meaningless, the pursuit is meaningless.

Just as someone high on drugs hits the ground when sober,

Someone high on pleasures, leisure, ministry, toys, jesus, love

would also hit the ground

Haven't i, many times?


Even in the midst of a purposeful life,
Even in the secure knowledge of God's love, there could be absence of happiness.
Following Jesus does not guarantee happiness.
Sometimes there's no happiness in Joy.
Sometimes there is pain instead.

But that's ok.

Because life is not really about the Pursuit of Happ y iness.

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My conclusion is that Joy is more important than Happiness.

This side of heaven, I don't think we could all be happy ALL the time.

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Because we will always be able to see that the world is not perfect YET.

Because there would always be something we have, that we wish we didn't.

Because we would always want something else,

once we start having what we once wanted.

(1 day of Youth Day Holiday? If only it were 2 days!)

Godliness with Contentment would probably give us a better shot at it.

So celebrate each snapshot of happiness.

don't demand it.

just celebrate.

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Are YOU happy?

Actually, maybe it doesn't even matter.